Problems with my current relationship and nearing a breakup

Why Women Leave Their Men

2008-06-04T12:55:00.000-07:00

Women leave for completely different reasons. They’re loyal to the end, until they stop feeling appreciated by their man. Men tend to think of some women as being “high-maintenance” because they’re needy and crave attention.

It’s not the attention they need – it’s the feeling that you appreciate everything they do – from the way she puts a little love note in your lunch to how she calls you at work to hear your voice.

This is why women who cheat, do it with men who shower them with attention and praise for who they are and what they have to offer the world. Don Juans and Casanovas use this technique quite successfully to seduce married and partnered up women. They start first as “the friend” who listens to the girl’s problems. Then, the conversation turns to “how ungrateful” the man she is with is and how blind he is to all of her wonderful qualities.

Finally, the Don Juan himself, is showering her with the “appreciation” and “attention” that she intensely desires…and next thing you know, Don Juan is the new man in her life.

Men CRAVE ADMIRATION!

2008-06-04T12:52:00.000-07:00

When a relationship gets stale, they may seek out another woman who has the newness and interest their old lover once showed. Call it manhood, call it ego – whatever it is, you have to let your man know he’s wanted and admired in a big way or he’ll get that boost from someone else.
When a couple first gets together a woman is really good at letting a man know she’s interested. She bats her eyelashes, smiles a lot, giggles, and is touchy-feely with him.

Then as time drags on, she starts going without make-up, wears sweats instead of that cute little mini-dress she used to don for him, and because she’s no longer trying to land him, she doesn’t put in as much effort into laughing at his jokes and showing interest in him.

Men don’t leave because they found someone prettier or thinner. They leave to feel respected, admired and wanted again. You’ll often hear men complain about wanting to stop being “nagged to death.”

It’s not the nagging that’s the problem – it’s the fact that their woman is conveying she’s somehow unsatisfied with who he is and what he has to offer, and that’s what eats away at him and drives him out of the relationship. This doesn’t mean you can’t ever express your true feelings, but you have to balance those thoughts with an expression of love and admiration that will feed the fire of your love. You don’t have to sacrifice your self-respect and cater to his every whim.

7 Quick Tips on Salvaging the relationship

2008-05-14T19:42:00.000-07:00

Identifying impending signs that a relationship is coming to a breakup is useful but what can you do about it? There are many ways to go about it and there are 7 tips on how to salvage this relationship.

Take these tips one at a time as they may be new to you or difficult to do. Don't get too overwhelmed by them but use each tip on your relationship to salvage it for the better.

Resist making accusations. Approach your partner calmly, without being defensive. Tell him/her the problem. Don’t be accusing or they will become defensive and yes, you will end up in an argument. If you find it’s easier to write it in a letter, then do so. Leave while they read it so you aren’t hovering over them, waiting for their reaction. Let them process what you have said. Again, do not be accusing. Tell them you want to make your relationship better. Have suggestions for BOTH of you, not just them. Be sure you know the core problem and aren’t just mentioning a symptom.

Refrain from insulting your partner during arguments. Fighting dirty can quickly become a habit and eventually someone will say something that the other person cannot forget, or worse, forgive.

Take time to tell your partner why you love him/her. Not once, but often. This can be something as small as a compliment on how they look. Your partner needs to know you appreciate them in special ways. Don’t just assume they know. Everyone likes to be reminded they are loved.

Be supportive and look for ways to give your partner the things they need the most. Even if they don’t tell you what they need, you can figure it out if you pay attention and know how. Some people have a hard time telling you what they need but there are clues. If you’re not sure, ask or find out now!

Don’t neglect yourself. If your needs aren’t being met, find a way to let your partner know. If you are unhappy, you will eventually blame your partner. It’s much easier to let them know, in a positive way, the things you need and that way you can keep the relationship beautiful.

Never try to solve a problem when you are angry. Take time to cool down and find out ways to calm yourself down immediately. I know this can seem impossible at times but think about it. Is anything ever really solved when you are yelling at each other?

Set aside some time for just the two of you. If not once a week, then at least once a month. This should be quality, alone time, however you two choose to spend it. You might try arranging a specific day each week and take turns planning what you will do.

Take time to salvage your relationship by using these tips, and your relationship will definitely be on the road to becoming better.

2008-05-14T19:29:00.000-07:00

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